{"id":53996,"date":"2023-07-15T10:13:08","date_gmt":"2023-07-15T06:43:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/?p=53996"},"modified":"2026-02-11T14:31:38","modified_gmt":"2026-02-11T14:31:38","slug":"navigating-iranian-culture-insights-into-social-norms-and-people","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/navigating-iranian-culture-insights-into-social-norms-and-people\/","title":{"rendered":"Iranian Culture: Insights into Social Norms and People"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Every culture has its own social norms and people\u2019s behaviors, from simple habits to rooted beliefs, are one of the most interesting things to observe while traveling. Of course, Iranians, too, have a complex system of social norms and etiquette. In this article, we\u2019ll try to give you an overview of these social norms, to avoid faux pas and, moreover, better understand the country.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-social-norms-in-iran\">Social Norms in Iran<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/iran-travel-guide\/\" title=\"Visiting Iran\">Visiting Iran<\/a> is for many the first encounter with the Persian culture, its people and their social norms. If you must absolutely be familiar with \u201ctaarof\u201d, the Persian etiquette, before your trip to Iran, there are also plenty of cultural norms that will help you understand Iran and Iranians.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image size-full wp-image-5097\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1280\" height=\"720\" src=\"https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Iranian-of-Taarof.jpg\" alt=\"Taarof In Iran\" class=\"wp-image-5097\" title=\"Taarof In Iran\" srcset=\"https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Iranian-of-Taarof.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Iranian-of-Taarof-780x439.jpg 780w, https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Iranian-of-Taarof-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Iranian-of-Taarof-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Iranian-of-Taarof-390x220.jpg 390w, https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Iranian-of-Taarof-300x169.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1280px) 100vw, 1280px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Taarof is a form of Iranian etiquette involving polite offers and refusals. It&#8217;s about showing respect and generosity through gestures.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>These behaviors have stories to tell as they bear the testimony of the cultural and religious heritage of the country. That\u2019s also why they vary so much depending on the location within Iran, and the social background of the person you\u2019ll encounter. In modern cities like <a class=\"wpil_keyword_link\" href=\"https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/is-it-safe-for-women-to-visit-iran\/\" title=\"Travel Safely in Iran: A Woman&#8217;s Guide to Iranian Culture and Security\" data-wpil-keyword-link=\"linked\" data-wpil-monitor-id=\"83209\">Tehran<\/a> or Shiraz, you may feel like people\u2019s behavior and state of mind is quite similar to the West. But in small villages or in conservative families, you may see more vividly these specific social norms.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-understand-taarof\">Understand taarof<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Taarof is an essential part of Persian culture. While some people are doing more or less taarof, you can expect to find this behavior among 99.9% of the population. Taarof can be described as a verbal and non-verbal system of politeness. It\u2019s an ensemble of attitudes and sayings that intends to make the other person feel appreciated and appear humble. Taarof can be sincere or it can simply be an act of politeness that should not be interpreted on the first degree.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"TAROF IN AN INTERSECTION\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/XAvzW1WZsN4?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>You\u2019ll see taarof expressed among endless social norms and behaviors in Iran. For instance, whenever a customer wants to pay for something (the restaurant bill, the taxi ride, groceries) and asks \u201chow much it costs\u201d, the answer isn\u2019t the price. Instead, the first answer should be some taarof saying, usually \u201cGhorbel nadare\u201d, meaning that you don\u2019t have to pay, it\u2019s on the house. Of course, the expected answer is a simple \u201cthank you\u201d, which will then be answered by the amount of the bill.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Likewise, because of taarof, expect people to always give you the best seat, the first and last bite of food, to let you enter first in a place, etc. Taarof can also go as far as offering to give you something you just complimented (a piece of clothes the person is wearing for instance) or offering to do something the person doesn\u2019t really want. That\u2019s why it\u2019s always recommended to refuse any offer three times, to make sure it\u2019s not simple politeness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-media-text has-media-on-the-right is-stacked-on-mobile is-image-fill has-background\" style=\"background-color:#f94931\"><div class=\"wp-block-media-text__content\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-group\" style=\"padding-top:2em;padding-right:2em;padding-bottom:2em;padding-left:2em\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"has-white-color has-text-color\" style=\"font-size:25px;line-height:1.2\"><strong>Best Hotels in Iran<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-buttons has-custom-font-size has-small-font-size is-layout-flex wp-container-core-buttons-is-layout-8c8af59c wp-block-buttons-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-button has-custom-font-size is-style-fill has-small-font-size\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link has-black-color has-white-background-color has-text-color has-background has-link-color wp-element-button\" href=\"https:\/\/orienttrips.com\/hotel?utm_source=blog&amp;utm_medium=surfiraninbanner\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0)\" class=\"has-inline-color has-black-color\">Click and explore<\/mark><\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><figure class=\"wp-block-media-text__media\" style=\"background-image:url(https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/abbasi-hotel-1024x576.jpg);background-position:52% 66%\"><a href=\"https:\/\/orienttrips.com\/hotel?utm_source=blog&amp;utm_medium=surfiraninbanner\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/abbasi-hotel-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"Book A Hotel In Iran\" class=\"wp-image-62099 size-full\" title=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/abbasi-hotel-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/abbasi-hotel-780x439.jpg 780w, https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/abbasi-hotel-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/abbasi-hotel-1536x864.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/abbasi-hotel-390x220.jpg 390w, https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/abbasi-hotel-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/abbasi-hotel.jpg 1600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-social-norms-in-persian-households\">Social Norms in Persian Households<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>The house, which is the family\u2019s gravitation center, is of course a place where many social norms are at stake. Family is extremely important in Iran, and most Iranians will always put their family\u2019s interests first. Expressing respect to family members, and in particular the elderly, is extremely important in Iran.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re invited to someone\u2019s home during your trip, there may be a few things you\u2019ll need to know in order to show your esteem toward the host. First, be aware that cleanness is not a topic to be taken lightly: that\u2019s why people remove their shoes before entering the house, but also use different slippers for the bathroom and kitchen. So make sure not to enter a house with your shoes on, and do not go out of the bathroom with the bathroom\u2019s slippers!<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1500\" height=\"1181\" src=\"https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/iranian-home.jpg\" alt=\"Iranian Home\" class=\"wp-image-53999\" title=\"Iranian Home\" srcset=\"https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/iranian-home.jpg 1500w, https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/iranian-home-780x614.jpg 780w, https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/iranian-home-768x605.jpg 768w, https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/iranian-home-1024x806.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/iranian-home-597x470.jpg 597w, https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/iranian-home-300x236.jpg 300w, https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/iranian-home-705x555.jpg 705w, https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/iranian-home-450x354.jpg 450w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1500px) 100vw, 1500px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>As a guest, it\u2019s a good thing to bring a small gift for your host: flowers or sweets (\u201cshirinis\u201d) are good enough. If you bring a gift, don\u2019t be surprised if it stays on the table unopened: it\u2019s in no way forgotten, but your host may be more comfortable not opening it in front of everybody. Iranians are always ready to receive guests, and it\u2019s a must to offer at least tea, nuts, and fruits, to someone visiting. So don\u2019t be surprised if you\u2019re being offered a lot of drinks and sweets to someone you just intended to visit for a few minutes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re invited over dinner, note that Iranians tend to eat pretty late, somewhere between 9 and 10 pm. And if you\u2019re wondering how to show you\u2019ve appreciated the food, the best way is to always finish your plate. But be careful, because your host will always insist to refill! So, start with small portions, to be able to taste a little bit of everything, and finish them all, which will be appreciated by your host.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-social-norms-between-women-and-men-in-iran\">Social Norms between Women and Men in Iran<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>For the traveler that got accustomed to Iran through <a class=\"wpil_keyword_link\" href=\"https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/famous-iranian-filmmakers\/\" title=\"Famous Iranian Filmmakers and Their Contributions to World Cinema\" data-wpil-keyword-link=\"linked\" data-wpil-monitor-id=\"3728\">Iranian movies<\/a>, be aware that things have changed a lot in the past decades. The distance and sometimes awkward relationships you may observe in some old <a class=\"wpil_keyword_link\" href=\"https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/understanding-iran-through-cinema\/\" title=\"Understanding Iran Through Cinema\" data-wpil-keyword-link=\"linked\" data-wpil-monitor-id=\"3727\">Persian movies<\/a> are no longer reflecting today\u2019s Iran society.&nbsp; That\u2019s particularly true in big cities like Tehran. However, as a foreigner <a class=\"wpil_keyword_link\" href=\"https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/traveler-recommends-potential-tourists-to-visit-iran-before-a-big-influx\/\" title=\"Traveler recommends potential tourists to visit Iran before a \u201cbig influx\u201d\" data-wpil-keyword-link=\"linked\" data-wpil-monitor-id=\"83208\">visiting Iran<\/a>, it\u2019s best to know the theory, so you can apply proper social norms when the context dictates it.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1500\" height=\"1000\" src=\"https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Iranian-family.jpg\" alt=\"Iranian Family\" class=\"wp-image-54000\" title=\"Iranian Family\" srcset=\"https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Iranian-family.jpg 1500w, https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Iranian-family-780x520.jpg 780w, https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Iranian-family-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Iranian-family-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Iranian-family-705x470.jpg 705w, https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Iranian-family-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Iranian-family-450x300.jpg 450w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1500px) 100vw, 1500px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>In general, there are limited physical contact between <a class=\"wpil_keyword_link\" href=\"https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/iran-tourist-visa-is-now-open\/\" title=\"Iran Tourist Visa is now Open for all Nationalities!\" data-wpil-keyword-link=\"linked\" data-wpil-monitor-id=\"83207\">women<\/a> and men who are not from the same family (which is said to be \u201cmahram\u201d) or close friends. They will salute each other without any physical contact. Some men may even be too shy to look at a woman if she is not first introduced by a male counterpart. However, the more you know the person, the more greetings tend to be affectionate: it\u2019s pretty common to hug between close friends or kiss on the cheek between relatives.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:64px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center has-text-color has-small-font-size\" style=\"color:#1e0e7c;line-height:.9\"><strong>APPLY ONLINE<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h6 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center has-text-color\" id=\"schedule-a-visit\" style=\"color:#1e0e7c;font-size:35px;font-style:normal;font-weight:700;line-height:1.15\">Iran Tourist visa<\/h6>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-buttons is-horizontal is-content-justification-center is-layout-flex wp-container-core-buttons-is-layout-499968f5 wp-block-buttons-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-button has-custom-width wp-block-button__width-50\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link has-text-color has-background wp-element-button\" href=\"https:\/\/surfiran.com\/iran-tourist-visa\/\" style=\"border-radius:50px;color:#ffffff;background-color:#f94931\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0)\" class=\"has-inline-color has-white-color\">Apply Now<\/mark><\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:64px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-general-social-norms-in-iran\">General Social Norms in Iran<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>There are a lot more of social norms to be familiar with in the public space in Iran. They are little things that you may not even pay attention to, but can actually be considered rude. For instance, it\u2019s really impolite, and even disgusting, for Iranians if someone blows their nose in public.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Likewise, it\u2019s a bit rude to sit with your back on someone, unless you don\u2019t have the choice (in a car, for instance). If you sit on the floor, you\u2019re not supposed to extend your legs either. If you do so because you can\u2019t stand sitting cross-legged, accompany it with a quick apology. Overall, it\u2019s appreciated to show manners when sitting and hold yourself properly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Don&#039;t go to Iran - Travel film by Tolt #4\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/nbjVrm6XS_A?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-social-norms-in-the-workplace-in-iran\">Social Norms in the Workplace in Iran<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>While you probably do not intend to work in Iran, there are a few social norms that Iranians apply at work, or at school, you may be interested in knowing. First of all, punctuality is not a thing in Iran! Especially in a crowded city like Tehran. Of course, it\u2019s somehow expected and appreciated, but meetings and gatherings may often start later than planned without anyone being offended about that. Conversations can also take time in Iran, and it\u2019s important to be patient and not press people to make a decision, which will not be perceived as respectful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>On the other hand, social bonding is a thing in Iran: it\u2019s pretty common for employees to gather and do outdoor activities outside of work hours, and their attendance is highly expected by the group. Networking is an important aspect of progress in the workplace in Iran, so extending your network and making friendly relationships at work is a plus. Because of this desire to establish friendliness, it\u2019s also usual to discuss light personal matters with your colleagues or your boss before starting your business conversation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Read More<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-yoast-seo-related-links\"><li><a href=\"https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/iran-travel-guide\/\">Iran Travel Guide<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/solo-woman\/\">Solo Female Travel in Iran: A Definitive Guide<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/travel-safety-in-iran-an-experience\/\">Travel Safety in Iran: Separating Myths from Facts<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/where-experience-young-iranian-life-tehran\/\">Where to experience young Iranian life in the capital of Iran<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/tabriz-carpet-bazaar\/\">Tabriz Carpet Bazaar; The Most Colorful Bazaar in Iran<\/a><\/li><\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Navigating Iranian culture and Insights into social norms, to avoid faux pas and, moreover, better understand the country.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":29,"featured_media":53998,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[306,305],"tags":[16050],"class_list":["post-53996","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-culture","category-how-to","tag-culture"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/53996","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/29"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=53996"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/53996\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":120454,"href":"https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/53996\/revisions\/120454"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/53998"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=53996"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=53996"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/surfiran.com\/mag\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=53996"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}